Why the Government can’t help “Real Women”

Now that I’ve found a spare minute I’ve had time to go through Jo Swinson’s practical but unfortunately titled “Real Women” website. To be honest I like it a lot. There’s practical advice helping women get the information they need in the work place, in law courts, to raise a family, for single parent support and all sorts. The blurb reads:
Women face pressure from all directions these days. Hit hard by the recession, trying to juggle family commitments with work and home life, it’s easy to feel like you’re running just to stand still. The media screams out an endless list of things still to do: get a bikini body in 20 days, plan the perfect children’s party, how to look 10 years younger. Despite great strides forward in equality, women still get paid less than men, and generally still end up taking more responsibility for childcare and looking after elderly relatives. This can be hugely rewarding, but combining this with a job can seem almost impossible.
There’s a lot the Government could do to give a helping hand. Making employers check for pay discrimination would help women get the money they deserve. Providing 20 hours per week free childcare would allow parents to make real choices about returning to work. Enabling everyone to ask for flexible working would help to change the rigid work culture, and make it easier to juggle different commitments. And it would be nice to inject some realism into the media’s portrayal of women, instead of the suggestion that nothing less than perfection will do.
What ruins this policy paper is the completely illiberal spiel about banning airbrushed photos. Is it not slightly patronising to suggest that modern women can’t cope with modern media? Tom Papworth thinks so as stated on this blog earlier in the year.
Everyone with half a brain knows that the images you see in magazines are just that; images, illusions, fantasy and behind those images are mortal women. They’re no more or less “real” than your next door neighbour. A lot of them are mothers and hard working business women.
I actually think it’s great that the women we celebrate are thin. We act as though all female stars are about to keel over and die from anorexia – they’re just not. Most of them are healthy and achieve desirable figures through disciplined diet and exercise. Moreover not all young women who look at airbrushed pictures have low self-esteem. Alternatively if our celebrities were morbidly obese and teenagers ate excessively to be like their favourite movie stars they would be aspiring to a significantly less healthy image.
Despite the proclamation that “There’s a lot the Government could do to give a helping hand…” what I noticed most about the Real Women website was that most of outgoing links do not go to government or quango websites – they go to charities and practical advice websites. The help is not coming from the government it’s coming from wider civil society. Whilst as an MP I think it’s right that Jo Swinson is guiding people in the direction of the help they need I think it’s wrong for her to be assuming responsibility for anyone’s self esteem.
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Everybody is shocked by the fact that over 15% of Americans do not have health insurance. In a system that supposedly relies on private insurance as the only door to healthcare, that more than one in seven is uninsured is a disgrace. Right?